Why Being Married Can Increase Your Chances of Getting a Hook Up
You may be used to taking off your ring when you go out to bars to try and meet women, but sometimes it might actually be a good thing for the woman you want to hook up with to know that you are married. While this may seem totally bizarre to you, there are several good reasons why a woman might actually become more interested in you if she knows that you’re married.
It Shows You Have Experience
Knowing that a man is married might give women the impression, straight away, that you have experience. In her mind, it likely means that you are good enough with women to get married to one, and this will be a serious attracting factor for her. Women have to deal with all kinds of men coming up to them to try and get their attention, but knowing that you already know more or less what women want will make you stand out from the crowd of other possibly inexperienced men. It may also make women want to try and give you something to think about when you go home, if she’s the particularly competitive type.
It Gives Some Woman A Thrill
“Married men are more experienced in bed”
Some women are just attracted to the idea of sleeping with a married man. You might not come across women such as these very often, but when you do, you’re in luck. As long as you are careful with these kinds of women, you can get just what you want. Just make sure to be careful and define boundaries. If you go into a bar seeking for a one-night stand, make sure it stays a one-night stand. It is in your best interests to avoid women who enjoy sleeping with married men if she wants to have a longer fling with you. She may be interested in trying to worm her way into your life and become a home wrecker instead of a discreet one-night stand or short-term fling, so exercise caution and define your boundaries clearly.
It Might Be Just What She’s Looking For
“Women like to chase what they cannot get”
Most married men don’t go to bars to look for a woman to have a long-term affair with, so chances are that if you are a married man in a bar you are only looking for something very short-term. If a woman sees that you’re married, she’s likely to draw the same conclusion, and this may be something that works out well for her. Women have to deal with clingy men just like men have to deal with clingy women, so she knows just by learning that you’re married that you are unlikely to be calling her the next day wanting to meet up again. If your woman is looking for a one-night stand or a short fling, you will probably present a very tempting option to her – the two of you can get as close as you want to be for the night, then move on the next day.
