There are all kinds of things to reference types of people, kinks, etc. these days, but most of them apply to women. There are cougars and jailbait and everything in between, but nobody knows much about the other side of that spectrum. If they did, then there would be way more guys trying to be manthers. Okay, so let’s assume that you don’t know what that is or how to become one and we’ll go from there.

What is it?

A manther is like the male equivalent of a cougar. It’s a nice way of saying that you’re an older man in the market for a younger woman, and you don’t even have to be old enough to be in sugar-daddy age range to do it. Any middle-aged guy can be a manther, and it’s a great way to meet women to sleep with on the side without being written off as creepy. So, now that you know what exactly it is, I bet you’re just dying to start as soon as humanly possible.

How Do I Start?

One of the staples of most manthers is being fiscally stable. Whether or not you actually are is irrelevant – it’s not like you’re going to be bringing her home to see your place. She won’t have any idea how much money you actually have, so with the right look you’ll seem like a pretty rich guy. A good start is by going to your nearest department store and updating your wardrobe. To properly complete the façade, you need to have the right clothes for the job. This doesn’t mean you have to start hitting the bars and clubs in a full three-piece suit, but you should dress to impress. Women go nuts over guys who wear button-down shirts with ties and vests with their nice denim or slacks. Consider this a business-casual occasion, and buy clothes accordingly. You need to at least look like you have some money, and you’ll be surprised at the attention you start getting. Who says getting older means that you have to stop picking up the ladies?

What Can I Expect?

You might not think so, but young women gravitate to older guys like you. They’re naturally attracted to older, more stable men because they’re at a chaotic time in their lives. Even if it’s just for one night, they want to know that they matter to a mature, established men. For some it’s daddy issues, and who knows what it is for others, but the ladies will love you. All you need to watch out for are gold diggers – in case you didn’t know, those are women who are out to take your money. If you’re just having an affair it shouldn’t be much of an issue, but if you look like you have money there are going to be people trying to part you with it. Just avoid discussing finances with the women you sleep with and you should be golden.