The hunting grounds of a man looking for an affair are much different from a single man looking for a date. If you want to have success, you have to know where to look. You want women looking for excitement in their life, something unexpected and great. For the most fun, you should seek out women at these three specific places.

Appointment Offices

Bored housewives still have to take their kids to the dentist, etc. Or go themselves. If you ever have to have an appointment in the middle of the day, check out the waiting room. Obviously, this is best done at places like the eye doctors, the detist, etc. You don’t want to try to hit on a sick woman, especially not when you’re sick yourself. But a yearly eye exam or a six month tooth cleaning is the last place these women expect to feel even the hint of romance. By paying attention to them when they feel very unattractive, you’ll up your odds of making a real connection. You might be just what the doctor ordered.

The Rom-Com Trap

If you ever see a woman sitting alone (or a group of ladies together) at a romantic comedy, make sure you take the time away from your wife to slip her your business card or snag her number. Women only go without men if they don’t have a man to go with them. Sitting there by herself is a cry for help that you can answer. Just flash her a winning smile and strike up a conversation. Whether she has a man or not, he’s clearly not looking after her. She could be in for a little revenge hookup, or something steady on the side to remind her that she’s an attractive, desirable woman.

The Gym

Maybe she’s working out so her husband will notice her again. Maybe she’s trying to get in shape so she can find a man in the first place. Whatever the reason, gyms are a great place to meet women. The endorphines are running high, everything’s exciting, and you’re taking the time to pick her out of a crowd. You can flatter and support a woman without even going out of your way by flashing a thumbs up across a crowded work room. These women are putting in the effort to sculpt their bodies; it’s pretty clear that they want a little something for their trouble. You might be that hunk of chocolate they reward themselves with at the end of the workout.

Besides, you can catch ladies on their trip from “not” to “hot”. There’s nothing like scoring with a hot woman who still acts like she’s thanking you when you’re in bed. Invest the time, and you’ll reap big dividends when the time comes.

You can scour the internet for all kinds of opportunities, but there’s no reason not to keep your eyes peeled in real life. The next time you find yourself checking out a hottie during a workout or see a bored housewife waiting for her new pair of sexy librarian glasses, that’s your cue to make your move.