Top Three Impressive Ways To Get Her To Say Yes To The Date
We’ve mastered the art of dating. When it comes to cheating advice, we’ve done it all, seen it all, and that’s why we know we can hand out the best of it. We’ve really got it down to an art when it comes to getting ladies to say ‘yes’ and go out with us.
So keep these tips for married dating in mind when you’re trying to hookup with a woman you meet on an online affair site.
It’s all in how you talk to her.
One of the most commonly asked questions we get on dating how-to’s is how we simply get women to go out with us so often. We were actually surprised about this, because honestly, it has everything to do with how you talk to her, and how you phrase the question to her.
Women enjoy a man that’s confident, but not a man that’s an egomaniac. It’s important that while you’re confident, you also mainly focus on her interests at first and try to relate to her.
By focusing on what she’s into, you’ll really be able to make her realize that you care about her, and not just about the inevitable sex that’s going to happen in your affair. Many men seem to forget this simple fact, and that means that they aren’t going to get anywhere when it comes to meeting up with her and getting her to go on that first date.
Knowing what to talk about is important.
Don’t sit around and talk about the weather with her. That’s not going to interest her at all, and that’s why it’s so important for you to actually read her profile and figure out what she’s really into.
If you can relate your interests back to her, that means that you’re doing a good job. You’ll really be able to reel her in and make her want to chat with you more in person, and that means that she’s going to be that much more likely to say yes to that first date.
When it comes to those e-mails, we highly recommend that you always end your e-mails in that special ‘hook’ that we mentioned earlier. Always try to ask her a question that she has to answer, or suggest a meeting spot for your affair. This encourages her to reply, and it also encourages her to say yes.
Where you call is also important.
It’s important that you don’t call when you’re at work, or where there is a ton of noise going on in the background. This is all a distraction for both of you, and it’s not going to provide a very seductive atmosphere.
Any sort of situation where there is a ton of noise going on is a bad idea. In general, choose somewhere quiet, or even where there’s some soft music playing. This will make her much more relaxed to talk to you, and you’ll be able to have much more privacy.
Whenever you call her, also make sure that you have all of the information you could possibly need at your fingertips. Don’t fumble over names or locations at this point in the game; that’s not going to make her want to go out with you at all, and is simply going to annoy her.
Phrasing is so, so important.
Make sure you get it down pat. We actually suggest that you practice what you’re going to say to her a few times if you feel that you’re nervous. If you’re asking her out over e-mail, double check for any errors that might be especially glaring.
“Hi, Tina. I know we’ve been talking only for a little while, but I really am interested in actually meeting you. I really just think that we have a great connection, and our shared love of tennis really makes me want to have a chance to play a game with you. If you have time this weekend, I don’t suppose you’d like to meet up for a friendly match, and maybe do dinner afterwards?”
This is the kind of e-mail that shows that you’re interested in her, that you actually want to see her, and that you want to spend a good time with her. We’ve used similar e-mails on many, many different occasions, and we’ve always been able to get the girl.
If she’s hesitant, back off for a bit.
If she ever starts to hesitate about meeting you, it’s best to just drop the conversation and try again later. If she still doesn’t really seem to be into you like that, then move onto the next woman.
For the most part, you will be able to tell if a woman is into you or not. With this in mind, just sit back, relax, and find a woman that really is into the same interests as you. She will come along, and you’ll really be able to have a good time with her once that happens.
Remember, it’s important to never bring up sex in these kinds of conversations. It’s an implied activity, of course, but that doesn’t mean you need to go out of your way to mention it. It’s not going to appeal to her, and it’s not going to win you any points.