There are just some things you shouldn’t do when you’re with a woman. However, when you’re with a woman that you’re dating and that woman isn’t your wife, the list of things you shouldn’t do quickly increases. Flings can be fun, but they can also be tricky if you’re not careful. If you don’t want to mess up the fun fling you have going on, make sure you avoid doing certain things that may end up turning her off.
Don’t Talk About Your Wife
One of the worst things you can do while you’re with your fling is to talk about your wife. It doesn’t matter if you’re badmouthing her or not, women do not want to hear you talking about other women. While you think talking badly about your wife may make your other woman happy, it will actually have the opposite effect. When you speak negatively about your wife, it will tell your other woman that you think your wife is an awful person, but that you still love her enough to stay married to her and not divorce her. This may lead your fling to believe that you don’t think she’s good enough for you to leave your wife.
Don’t Talk About Work
When you talk about work, it’s like you’re letting your fling deeper into your life. Doing things like mentioning coworkers who you go out for drinks with or play golf with make her feel a deeper connection to you and the life that you lead. Eventually, she will start to get upset because she will never get to meet these coworkers of yours. Also, you may end up mentioning things like company parties and events that you’ll end up brining your wife to. This will make your fling feel left out. It will also start to make her feel like you don’t see her as anything other than someone to have sex with. Even if that is how you view her, this is not something that she needs to be aware of.
Don’t Appear Nervous Whenever You’re Out in Public with Her
If you want to make sure you’re getting the most out of your fling, always remember to think before you speak and act. Some things you do may end up offending your other woman and when you offend your fling, she may try to ruin your relationship with your wife.