While it may not be the most honest thing to do, being married and dating other women is awesome. Preferably your wife will be open to getting it on with other women, but if she’s not then you’re going to have to double as a man of mystery, which is cool in and of itself. Some benefits are obvious while others might not be something that pops straight to mind when you think of cheating.
You Know What’s Up
It Makes You Feel Better
Having someone be interested in you just because they want to, can be an amazing ego boost. Your wife may love you, but she’s already very committed. This new woman, though, she’s seeing you because she has a genuine interest. When you think about it that way, you’re going to feel better about yourself and come off as more confident. This is going to make you a better date for her and a better man overall. Your friends will notice and might catch on to what you’re doing, but then you can give them some tips of your own.
Your Wife Will Notice
Whoa, whoa, whoa. That’s not a good thing, right? Believe it or not it actually is. There are two ways that your wife will notice or react to your affair. The first is that she’ll find out and all hell will break loose. The second is that she isn’t any wiser to your affair, but she does notice that you’re more confident around her. Confidence is one of the sexiest attributes that women want. When you’re feeling better about yourself and sexier because another woman wants you it’s actually going to improve your relationship with your wife. That may have been the problem in the first place. But a well timed affair can really send the spark back into your union and ultimately end up saving it. Of course, you’re going to have to keep your outside dating light and fun so that you don’t create a home wrecker situation. If you do it right your wife will be a very happy lady.
Being married and dating on the side is one of the most daring and freeing things you can do as a man. Be prepared for the consequences, but don’t let them stop you.