Sometimes women are up to no good right from the start. You may hook up with a woman as a fling that seems to be everything you want in a woman, except something about her seems off. You may find yourself ignoring your gut feeling because this woman seems to be perfect for you in every way, but eventually you’ll figure out what’s wrong. Unfortunately, when you figure out what the problem is, usually you’re too late.
She’s Trying to Claim You for Herself
When your other woman starts wanting you all to herself, she will start doing things that have the potential to ruin you marriage. If you notice that she’s leaving hickeys all over you, has started wearing strong perfume or heavy makeup, or has suddenly started writing you romantic letters and text messages, chances are she may be trying to get you in trouble with your wife. When a woman wants to destroy your marriage, she will typically do various gestures that may seem sweet to you, but are actually meant to get you into trouble. If you notice that she starts doing something that she wasn’t doing before, she may be trying to leave signs to your wife that you’re cheating on her.
When you realize that she’s trying to destroy your marriage, it’s important that you don’t let her know that you know what’s she up to. Allow her to keep trying, but make sure you are always one step ahead of her. When the perfect opportunity arises, dump her without a second thought and without warning. Make up an excuse to your wife for wanting to change your cell phone number in advance so after you break up with your fling, you can change your number without issue and most importantly, without looking suspicious.
She’s Giving You Sob Stories
Women love to take advantage of men, especially when if she’s the other woman. If your fling suddenly starts becoming more needy than you remember, she may be trying to pull your attention away from the family life you have at home. She may do this by flattering you a lot more than you’re used to, and by having various problems that only you have the answer to. Do not allow yourself to fall for her stories. Chances are that she is planning something that will eventually lead to her revealing to your wife about your cheating.
Always make sure you never give your fling a way to contact your wife, your family members, or your job. She doesn’t need to be aware of anything or anyone that can connect you to her.
When you take steps to make sure that she can’t prove to your wife that you’re cheating on her, you will make her ability to get you caught decrease significantly. Never give your fling so much power over you that you end up being blackmailed to keep her quiet. Women can be spiteful, and the worst part about it is that they are really good at it.