There are plenty of women who are okay with knowing that you’re married and are still willing to get involved with you. There are also women who say they are fine with it, but secretly aren’t. If you’re thinking about juggling multiple women, make sure you look for signs that tell you whether or not she’s okay with being the other woman.
She’s Fine with It
Sometimes you may wonder whether or not the woman you’re having a fling with is completely fine with being the other women. Women are complex and many times they like to lie when you ask them to be honest with you. However, when it comes to discovering whether or not she’s fine with being your woman on the side, there are a few easy signs you can look for to make sure she’s OK with the arrangement that the two of you have.
One sign you can look for is whether or not she lowers her voice or stops talking altogether when you’re on the phone around her. It doesn’t matter if you’re talking to your wife, or a friend. If your fling falls silent when you’re on the phone, it’s a safe sign that she’s okay with being the other woman. The reason she tries her best not to make a sound is because she doesn’t want the other person to question who the other voice is in the background. Another sign you can look for is the willingness to help you patch things up with your wife. If you notice she enjoys offering suggestions on what types of gifts to give her, or what to do to make up for something you’ve done to anger, you can safely assume that she’s okay with being the other woman.
She Isn’t Fine with It
When a woman isn’t happy about being the other woman, she will typically give you plenty of signs to let you know how she’s feeling. The obvious sign would be for her to constantly ask you when you’ll be leaving your wife. However, she may also do other more subtle things that may alert you to the fact that the current arrangement you have is not good.
If you notice that she’s trying to leave hickeys all over you on obvious places, she may be secretly trying to get your wife to realize that you’re cheating on her. Look out for women who like to suck and bite on your neck and chest during sex. Another sign that may tell you that she is trying to ruin your message is if she calls texts you during times where she knows you are with your wife. If she’s giving you the excuse that she forgot you were with your wife, it may be time to let her go.