Chances are that if you are looking to have an affair or a short-term relationship on the side of your regular relationship, you want to date younger women. Younger women can be much more adventurous and willing to take risks in bed than your wife or committed girlfriend is, which makes them the prime group you should be pursuing. If you devote your attention to a younger crowd of women, you have to know exactly how to get their attention so that they pick you over the other men who might be closer to their own age. By following some of these instructions, you should be able to stand out in the crowd and attract any younger woman’s attention.
Capitalize On Their Natural Desires
Young women are almost always attracted to older men for a variety of reasons, so play up your age. Of course you don’t want to come across as an old man, but skip the t-shirts and jeans and wear something that looks at least somewhat professional. If you have an obsession with looking younger, you might want to give it a rest for a night and let your silver fox shine. As long as you look mature, self-assured and confident, you are likely to be a hit with younger women no matter where you choose to try and pick them up.
Be Smooth and Suave
Treat the younger woman of choice like a lady. Chances are if you’re married, you know how to play the romantic game and play it smooth. You hardly need to bust out roses, but act like a charming gentleman to really capitalize on a younger woman’s desire to be treated like a princess. Most likely, your younger woman is used to being hassled by men her age, so don’t be one of the men that catcalls at her from across the room. Strike up an intelligent conversation with her, buy her a drink, and maybe even offer to give her your coat if it’s cold. Anything that shows her that you know how to treat a lady is sure to gain you extra points with her, since she probably spends much of her time being surrounded by younger, more uncertain men.
Act Your Age and Be Mature
You aren’t a boy anymore, so do your best not to act like one. The more mature you act, the more likely you are to draw younger women to you. We have all heard that women seem to mature faster than men, and whether or not this is true, it’s plain to see that younger women are attracted to men who behave maturely and not like children. You have to act confident and self-assured to really show her that you are an adult, so try not to act shy or uncertain around her. You have to know your desires and make them clear – not enough to be rude, but enough so that she understands you’re a man who knows what he wants.