Sometimes you may become so comfortable with a fling that you feel like you can tell her everything. Obviously, this is a mistake as flings can turn on you just as quickly as you hook up with them. When it comes to dating women while you’re married, you need to make sure you aren’t giving too much information away to someone who could potentially become your enemy.
Keep Your Personal Contact Information Away
When it comes to how much or how little you should let your fling know about you, you may want to make sure to keep your personal contact information away from her. A cell phone number or an email address is one thing, but things like where you work, or who your friends are may be pushing it. When your fling discovers certain things about you, she will store them inside her mind for safekeeping or for blackmailing if necessary. You do not want your fling to call you at work because chances are your coworkers are at least a little bit familiar with your wife. Even if they aren’t, you never know when an emergency arises and someone from work will have to contact your wife. If they believe your fling is your wife, they may refer to her by name when contacting your wife. This has the potential to get nasty really quickly. If you can, avoid it at all costs.
She Shouldn’t Know Any of Your Friends
Your friends can be lifesavers or they can be the people responsible for your relationship ending in shambles. When it comes to you sleeping around, you can never tell who your real friends are until it’s too late. If you have a lot of male friends, you may run the risk of one of them hooking up with your fling. You also run the risk of one or more of them becoming jealous or annoyed that you’re cheating on your wife. When this happens, your friend may try to tell your wife about your other women. Sometimes we have friends who have wanted our wives all along and when they see an opportunity to make our wives hate us, they go for it. Do not let yourself become one of these men.
If your fling asks about your friends, tell her that you don’t have any. If you don’t think she will believe that, tell her that all of your friends live in nearby cities or states. Try not to talk about your friends or mention any hanging out that you do with them while you’re not with your fling. As long as you aren’t talking about them, she won’t wonder about whom they are.
No matter how perfect your fling seems to be, never trust her with information that could somehow end up in your wife’s hand. As gorgeous as women are, they can really cause a lot of problems for you when they’re upset or want to get even. If possible, make sure you have plans that you can put into effect to make a clean getaway when it comes to married dating.