One of the most common things to do to improve your experience in the bedroom is to start playing around with temperature. Going from hot to cold and everything in between can really drive your lover wild, and it’s sure to be an experience she won’t forget anytime soon. Most men don’t think to mess around with it, though, because they discount the impact it has on the sex as a whole. Show her that you care enough to be thorough by taking your time and messing around with temperature play the next time you hook up.
The best thing about temperature play is how sensitive it’ll make your lover. She’ll feel like she’s on fire no matter whether you go hot or cold, and it’s sure to amp up your sex to the next level every time. The best thing to do to really get her squirming is to buy some self-heating lube and put it on her while you’re playing with her. You’ll have her writhing in no time, and you get to enjoy how sensitive she is to every touch and kiss. Put that on her and let her sit with her legs open for a while to let the lube take effect, and then get to work on her pussy and her clit. Prepare her as you normally would, but she’s sure to have a much better reaction because of the friction mixed with the change in temperature.
Especially if you’re in a cold room or a steamy shower, having sex in extreme temperatures really tends to let your animal side show itself. It’s easy to let your passions run high in a hot shower, so really drive her crazy by grabbing her close to you while you two go at it. It shows how intense you can be, and it also is a great way to be more forceful with her. Getting close in a cold room is a necessity, too, so it’s a good time to try out any positions that involve you two plastered against each other. She’ll go crazy when she sees you letting your primal instincts get the best of you, guaranteed.
Playing around with temperatures is a great way to figure out her temperament, most sensitive areas, and her endurance. Some women can only take so much of this kind of activity before they grow agitated, but others can’t get enough. If anything, use it during foreplay to figure out which areas you should be paying attention to during sex. Most women’s nipples get incredibly sensitive when exposed to extreme heat or cold, and the clit is always a good spot to go for. If she starts seeming like it’s too much for her, don’t hesitate to stop it. A lot of people use temperature play for foreplay only and leave the sex as it is normally, but if you want to go all out then that’s an option too. Just be sure to take clues from her and go from there.