You know the old saying: ‘Why go out for hamburger when you’ve got steak at home?’ Why would you go out for even another steak? The only reason to go out is to find something that you’re never going to get at home. Of course, with sex this means more whips and chains than a different kind of steak sauce. If you’re going to have a fling, make sure it’s something kinky your wife would never do.
It’s Easier to Find Fetish Hookups
When you’re looking for vanilla sex you’re competing against every other guy around. You’re also going to find women who are looking for romance. You’re going to have to sort through all those women to find the ones who just want to hook up and then compete with the rest of the guys to get them. Fetish sites are smaller communities. They’re also all sex focused. No matter what your kink is, you can find a site dedicated to it. And every single woman you see is going to be thinking about hooking up with this kink in mind. Sex is everywhere, and you just have to make it clear that you’re not looking for anything more than a hookup, one night stand, or occasional reoccurring fling.
Deep Satisfaction with Every Hookup
When you’re hooking up with a kinky woman you’re satisfying needs you’ve always had. Your wife might not be into these things, but you always wanted them. Sexual exploration is key to a man’s happiness. When you’re finally getting what you really want sexually, you’ll find a lot of your frustrations with life disappear. You won’t be so short tempered or prone to arguing, and you can let go of your resentment. Your wife might have stopped you from expressing yourself with her, but once that expression is out you can let that go. You’ll be calmer, happier, and a better husband and employee once you’re not holding all that inside.
Perks for You
A man getting what he wants in the bedroom is a confident animal outside of it. Your performance at work will improve; you’ll have the self-assurance to know what to do and ask for what you need. You won’t be holding yourself back in any part of your life. This is as much a head game as it is a matter of physical satisfaction. You’ll finally be comfortable with who you are and what you like.
Perks for Her
You’re going to be an attentive husband again. You’re not going to be resenting her for not allowing you to be yourself. You’re only going to see the good again, and you’ll treat her accordingly. On top of all of that, you’re not going to be putting pressure on your relationship by wanting things she’s not ready to give you. You’ll be more supportive and caring, and she’ll receive the benefits of that.
By releasing your kinky side and finding the deep satisfaction you crave, you’ll be improving your life in every way. You’ll be happier and more confident, and it’s the people at work and at home who will benefit from the new you.