Age is just a number, that’s true. But the age that you actually act can play out how a woman will end up seeing you. Those who might be really into older activities like golf and crosswords puzzles better act young and hip to balance it out. But going in the opposite direction and breaking out board games and light beers will make her think that you’re not going to be secure for her. There’s a point of acting just young enough to get her interest and keep it.
Alright, so it’s a confusing concept but acting younger can catch the attention of a woman who may not have looked twice at you before when you’re an older guy. She’ll ignore those signs of aging like salt and pepper hair or wrinkles around your eyes. That’s because you are the type of guy who likes adventure and doing spontaneous things. Those qualities will definitely make you look more seasoned and fun than old and wise.
How to Act Young the Right Way
Going out and partying at your local dance club when you’re fifty isn’t going to give the right young vibe that you’re looking for. That would make you seem creepy and/or immature. Instead try to go to fancier restaurants, the gym, and more adult events. Anywhere where you can turn on your charm and charisma to show her that even though you’ve got a few years under your belt it don’t mean a thing.
Having a sense of humor is a great way to establish a younger age. When women are asked what they look for in a guy being able to make her laugh is always at the top of the list. The best bet to gauge whether you’re actually funny or not is to try it on strangers. When older men try to crack formulaic jokes they’re seen as the grandpa who got a joke book for Christmas. Grandpas aren’t sexy in most cases.
Being outdoorsy is an easy way to seem younger because chances are you’ll look younger. The physical activity paired with a sense of adventure is reminiscent of romance novel heroes who whisk women away to have sex with their pumping members. The whole point is that you’re reminding her of attractive young dudes just by picking up certain activities that they do.
A wildcard that you could try and play is to pick up hobbies that young people do. Humor and outdoorsmanship are two universal qualities, but not every older guy reads comic books or keeps up on the newest shows about making drugs in an RV. It’s chancy because you could possibly come off as trying too hard. But if you can actually pull it off you’ll really have something in common with the hot young women in your town. Having stuff in common leads to talking which hopefully leads to taking all of her clothes off. Or having a nice coffee date. Whichever you’re shooting for.