So, you already know how important safe sex is, but condoms and lubes are just boring. If you feel that way, it probably just means that you haven’t found the right lube yet. There are dozens of different kinds to choose from, and the three below are only a few. Why not spice up your sex life in every way possible? Using different kinds of lubes for different situations can make much more of an impact than you think. Just be sure to have a large collection, and know what to use and when.
When you’re just getting the hang of things with your affair, stick to the basics. The original, water-based lubricants are great for first times with a new woman, and she’ll be happy that you even considered it. A lot of men assume that because the vagina is self-lubricating that it’s enough to just use a condom and call it good. Sadly, not all women get as wet as they need to be to take you inside, so they end up biting back the pain instead of properly enjoying the encounter. Spare her the awkwardness of bad sex by being courteous enough to bring your own lube, and be sure to use it liberally while you’re prepping her. Having some lingering inside her will make it a much smoother slide that the two of you are sure to love.
If you’ve been struggling with getting her to go down on you, it might just be the taste that’s throwing her off. Believe it or not, not all women love the taste of your cock, but that’s okay. It can be fixed easily by using flavored lubes. Obviously these aren’t really meant for penetrative sex, but for oral sex it’s fantastic. They come in a variety of flavors for her to try, so you’re sure to get a lot of blowjobs while she figures out which ones are her favorites. This works out well for you, and gets her confident enough to actually enjoy giving you head. Just don’t let her eat it right out of the tube.
This is the easiest way to spice up your sex in no time flat. These kinds of lubes are self-heating so you can spare yourself the trouble of warming it up to avoid freezing her to death, and they make everything much more sensitive. Slather some of that between her thighs, and you’ll have her writing before you even touch her, and she’ll love it even more when you actually get going. Be careful not to use it too liberally or else it can burn, but a bit will help you out a lot. It’s even better if you use this kind of lube in a cold room, because the cool air just makes the area even more perceptive to touch. Tie up her wrists so she can’t get away for a kinky experience that she’s sure to remember years from now, and keep her coming back for more.